the last pair of boots

I’ve been doing some hardcore reorganizing in my closest(s) over the last few weekends.   I have a serious shoe problem.    I’m not exactly sure when I lost control but I have way too many pairs, it needs to stop.   I have three pairs of nude pumps.   Three!   For the love of Gucci, I’m a dj…no one even sees me, I could roll into work in Pumas and a hoodie every day, why am I obsessed with shoes??    I’ve decided I am not allowed to buy any more shoes, indefinitely.   Not a sneaker (I have 3 pairs of those too) not a flat (I have about 10 pairs) or a heel (I can’t even keep track.)

At the beginning of the month I made a little Shoedazzle purchase, obviously not something I needed, but when they arrive this will be my last pair of anything for a long, long time.

I’ll miss you Shoedazzle.   You too   This may be one of the hardest bad habits to quit

mail order happiness

I’ve been in a fierce, foul mood since I came back from an amazing weekend with friends in NYC (I’ll save that for another blog, including our Tracy Morgan run in.)  I really did have a fantastic time, I think I just went a little too hard and my body’s been responding  with pure bitchiness.   It just happens sometimes, doesn’t it ladies?  My mood lifted a little when I came home and spotted this month’s BIRCHBOX waiting on my doorstep!

Excellent goodies this month.  I’m excited to try the tube mascara, anyone have any feedback?  I really love BIRCHBOX, if you’re unfamiliar check out my post about it from earlier this summer.   It’s a nice little $10 splurge and the products are usually pretty big!

One mail order service I’m not loving lately is Shoedazzle.   I was a fan for awhile but lately my showroom seems to be an endless stream of stripper-esque platform shoes, even after requesting alternates.   Don’t get me wrong, my heart beats fast for a great platform but not all the time.  Also they charged me last month despite the fact I KNOW I clicked skip the month, got the refund but it just makes me a little skeptical.   Again, if this sounds like jibberish, check out my declaration of love for shoedazzle from earlier this year, it breaks down exactly what it is.

Do you have any mail order services that you love?   There are a few for kid’s clothing that I’m considering trying, would love to find out what you love!





flattery for breakfast

Yesterday morning I popped out to my car to grab something from my truck.   On the way back in a black town car whizzed by honking.    It stopped, went into reverse and the window rolled down.   A woman in the drivers side yelled to me, “WHERE DID YOU GET THOSE SHOES???”

That is the power of Shoedazzle people!

I explained to her the concept and process of Shoedazzle and that I had purchased the fab shoes in April.   She was disappointed that she wouldn’t be able to get the same pair I was wearing but I encouraged her to try the site and to call their customer service department to see if there was any way to get a previously featured shoe.

It was nice (and kind of flattering) that this woman stopped driving to ask about the shoes, even though I was just wearing them it made me feel good.   Have you ever stopped someone you didn’t know to ask where they got something?


After being inundated with facebook suggestions, email invites and ads I decided to bite the bullet and try out Shoedazzle.   Shoedazzle is a monthly style service (shoes, bags, jewelry, etc.)   It’s an easy to grasp concept:

After you answer your style questions on the 1st of each month a personalized showroom will appear for you on the Shoedazzle website.   Approximately 10 pairs of shoes for you to view, 5 bags and 5 jewelry-esque items.  Everything is $39.95   If you don’t like anything in your showroom you can request alternates.   One big thing to remember with Shoedazzle is that the site has your credit card info and if you don’t select something by the 5th of the month OR click a button saying that you don’t want to purchase anything your credit card WILL be charged $39.95.   I learned this the hard way.

If you do find something you like, select it in the showroom and depending on your shipping preferences you’ll have some fun new items in no time!    Since joining 6 months ago these are some of the styles I’ve selected:

Bone pumps ordered in October (I think these will be awesome for spring)

Boots that I have lived in all winter, LOVE LOVE LOVE them:

This buttery blue bag that matches a Kenneth Cole jacket  I found in January.   This has been my go to bag since it arrived in February:

Overall my experience with Shoedazzle has been great!   If I don’t like what my showroom has to offer I just skip that month.   The only negative experience I had with the site ended up turning into a positive.   In December there was a purse that I selected.   The website noted that stock was low on this item but the site still processed my checkout.  A week later I received an email from Shoedazzle stating that my shipment had been cancelled because they were OUT OF STOCK.  I was frustrated because that’s not what was communicated to me at checkout.   A quick call to Shoedazzle (on a Friday evening after 5p no less) and a very helpful customer service rep apologized for the misunderstanding and agreed that it wasn’t fair that I hadn’t received any notification that stock may be gone by the time my order shipped.   They gave me a 30% discount on my next order.   I was ok with that.

The quality of the items  I have received from Shoedazzle has been great for $40!  I don’t always have an extra $40 lying around but if I do it’s a fun way to treat myself.  Have you tried out Shoedazzle?   Do you have any other style sites you subscribe to ?